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I hate being ugly

1 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 11:50
It's not fair that I was born this way, man.
All I wanted was to be normal, to be loved, and desired.

Instead I came out the womb an ugly monstrosity, and puberty only made it worse.
Did god hate me from birth? What did I do?
2 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 12:39
What's up with all those self-pity posts on this board lately?
3 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 13:01
Man get the fuck out of here with that bullshit, this is denpa not mope town!
4 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 15:15
Non-ugly denpas wouldn't understand
5 Name: Maggotsworryguts !YqKvPdjnc. 2025-10-17 15:25
>>4
Most denpas are socially retarded and unattractive in the conventional sense. Not to mention the amount with some form of dysphoria and or dysmorphia.
blah blah something about We're all in this together you're not alone my dude but PLEASE stop posting this kind of thing and get some therapy
6 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 15:45
start diggin in yo butt twin
7 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 23:52
Im honestly new. This was a shit test to see if this would attract the kind of annoying normalfags other chans would.
I am ugly and do wanna die though lol, but I guess this isnt normalfag central.

P.S: am I allowed to be extremely misogynistic when w*men are brought up? The rules arent clear enough for me.
8 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-17 23:54
Let's flip this tone around.
What do you guys do to cope with being hideous?

In the winter I like wearing a ski mask.
9 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 00:00
have no mirrors. don't go outside. ez.
10 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 01:03
>>1
Beauty is objectively subjective, but no one believes that here because all of the posters are either older incels, right-wingers, eugenicists, or zoomers who grew up inculcated into incel and lookism ideology due to the sheer impact of Instagram and TikTok on their culture and self-perception. This means they might as well be all of the things previously listed, even when they're not.

For all the people who find the set of traits you lack appealing, there will be another person with a different set of preferences. A clear example of this today is China or Japan—countries with preferences for beauty and personality that do not fit into our popular Western understanding whatsoever. This leads to many "ugly" men being significantly more successful there than here.

You don't have to be a relativist or even a hard subjectivist to acknowledge these discrepancies and realize that subjectivity will inevitably play a large role in determining your attraction(s). These attractions are not just subjective; they are mediated by a transient process—one that is influenced by the emotions we feel toward a particular individual, irrespective of how we initially felt about their physical attributes.

Also, are we just going to forget the widespread preference for smaller cocks in Ancient Greece? But I digress.

Another thing worth mentioning is the fact that expectations go backward as you get older. So even if you aren't successful now, it doesn't have to be that way for the rest of your life. Don't worry about it as much; focus on the things that matter most to you. Develop into a person that you feel comfortable with, if you ever hope to have anyone comfortable with you.
11 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 12:48
Love is dead. Its been replaced by fetishism and if the internet taught me anything, its that theres always a fetish for something. No matter how you look, there are people out there salivating and masturbating to it. If you are looking for love you won’t find it.
12 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 15:01
>>11
See how Fredrick Brennan lost his virginity. No matter what physical deficit you got, there's somebody who thirsts over exactly that. But as Anon said, this ain't love.
13 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 18:36
>>12
The point isn't about losing your virginity.
1. If your appearance is only attractive to some very small niche, what is the chance that you'll ever meet someone that's into that? Specifically if you don't live in a big country/city.
2. What if you're just a fetish to that person. They'll either just cheat on you and leave you for someone more "normal" or treat you as a one-off fetish and move on to whatever turns them on next. See the case of trans people and chasers since people are talking about it on the chat thread.
All the "incels" are just failed normans and most moved onto "looksmaxxing" and "hustle culture". Only the volcels and wizards left.
14 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 18:37
>>11
>>13
Wait nvm I think I just agreed with you LMAO
15 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 19:52
What if you're just a fetish to that person. They'll either just cheat on you and leave you for someone more "normal" or treat you as a one-off fetish and move on to whatever turns them on next.
A cursory glance through dating, self-help literature, and sex ed materials reveals that this attitude is now encouraged as the best way to approach relationships. Like I said, romantic love is a dead concept or a fading one. The problem with the "trans chasers" meme is that their behavior is indistinguishable from vanilla heterosexual normies. A guy lusting after a woman or a woman lusting after a guy behaves exactly like a trans chaser. I guess we all want to be loved, but maybe that's because we're straddling the older generation where romantic love was a thing and the new younger generation of teens and early 20 year olds where love just means casual sex with strangers and inability to get laid is death sentence.
16 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-18 22:15
Damn, I dont open denpachan to read threads like this.
17 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-19 06:29
>>10
This is not only limited to regions of the world. Almost all guys I know are into the swedish bimbo-ish phenotype while I see them as average. And then I see a woman who looks like a mix of my sister and the abundant life shooter and i think she's a 9/10 but my friends think she's mid.
18 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-19 10:37
i say this to my irl friends all the time. firstly i’m going to assume that most people here are in their 20s so college or first job age, beauty in physical form has almost nothing to do with how happy you feel in your day to day life because in the real world you can be objectively “ugly” and happy. being in your 20s is the biggest scam cause it shows you that only attractive people can live happy lives because they are sexually active. imagine that if everyone could have sex with everyone then would you still care about your looks? and if sex was truly free then would it even play a significant role in everyday life? the only thing that has de facto value is the idea of value itself, not in the monetary sense though. if you could be the best garbage collector in the whole world, and you felt confident enough in your abilities then you collecting garbage would give you more satisfaction than feeling like the most beautiful person in the world. the problem is that the system forced upon us right now wants to hide value behind money and uses sex as a way to keep you down.
19 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-19 14:22
I'm only 22 and I'm balding
I'm 5 foot 2
Name a shawty that would want me
A grown ass man that lives with his mommy
Hit her in a D.M. and she'll just ignore me
Nobody could love me I think that it's lovely
I'm the only one that's gon' deal with my ugly
Deal with my ugly
Deal with my ugly
I'm the only one that's gon' deal with my ugly
20 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-21 18:05
I'm ugly
Date a blind girl then, jeez. Its not hard.
21 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-21 18:17
>>20
"You are indeed handsome, Hisao"
https://files.catbox.moe/3hsnfi.png
22 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-21 19:03
boring thread, didn't read, kys
23 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-22 08:42
i'm fully bald at 12 years old
i'm only 1 foot tall
I also live with >>19 's mom
24 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-22 10:18
>>23
Stats: 5'9", 135 lbs

Stats: 5'9", 135 lbs

Stats: 5'9", 135 lbs
25 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-22 10:37
I was born bald and short. You guys don't understand my immense suffering.
26 Name: Maggotsworryguts !YqKvPdjnc. 2025-10-22 21:32
>>25
I was born with glass bones and paper skin
27 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-23 07:57
>>26
So you're a cripple?
28 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-23 13:11
>>26
>>27
MY SKIN IS LIKE PAPER!
29 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-23 17:55
5”6’ 120lbs probably 40% leg muscle from all the cardio
Estrogen maxxing with a full head of hair
30 Name: Anonymous 2025-10-26 15:59
I hate having a body

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